REALIZATION : - REEL LIFE FANTASIES make REAL LIFE TRUTHS even more bitter.

Since the past many years the newer generations have shown an increasing inclination towards trying to forcefully match their own REAL LIFE with the REEL LIFE of movie stars shown on screen and keeping that neck to neck with Reel life without thinking that Real Life Emotions and Events are Spontaneous.

Talking about this, the first aspect that comes into mind is Love and the things related to it. As we all know Majority of the Entertainment Content having been created till date, have Love and its various components as the main ingredient of the storyline. And within that specifically, it is the love between a Girl and a Boy, (and not too much shown in other relations) who apparently, can be said to be the most beautiful and the most handsome respectively, within the given surrounding or many a times the boy has an appearance which is nowhere near the extent of beauty of the girl and probably this gap plays well in attracting a huge part of the audience which is not as handsome in accordance with the set-pattern or criteria or the standards for handsomeness that the cinema has established in People's minds, as that movie with that gap in appearances of both characters serves as a Very Strong Stimulant for their (audience's) minds to undergo Extensive Fantasies and as we know Fantasies are meant to give our minds, Extensive but Fake Pleasures and also the fact that this results in us, neglecting our own appearance and expect our Future Companion to have that Cinema level of Handsomeness or Beauty and definitely the same Grace or Style ('Adaayen' in hindi) but reality is mostly found NOT to be exactly matching with that REEL LIFE STANDARDS and when that happens those Stimulated People are left with a perpetual pain, a chronic pain (which might be small or big), atleast somewhere in their heart, even in the least affected cases, But, in the more affected ones...Well..... , we know, what all happens. 

We, here, have to understand that Movies etc, are made by, constantly sticking to the Commercial Point of View. Even the movie stars themselves are found not to support that Fantasy-filled-Stimulated-Thought-process whenever they have interaction with the audience. 

We have to keep in mind that the events and actions happening in the movies are scripted and even if made on real story, then they are glorified (atleast a bit, even in the rarest case) so that the movie can serve its commercial purposes also, but those (events and incidents) occuring in our lives are not scripted, atleast not totally, by any Human. 

So, we should be realizing these facts and changing our minds and expectations, accordingly, which therefore will lead us to a better state of mind in which we won't have these sorts of expectations and hence will not be suffering from that chronic pain (of not finding the Exact copy of our Reel Life Expections in Real Life) after the happening of atleast those life incidents which just happen spontaneously. For e.g. In the most lineant case, finding the partner having 7 out of those 10 expected qualities, because then since we will be having Mental Realization of the above mentioned Truth, we won't be having that chronic mental pain and if it was there in beginning, we will be able to overcome it and lead a Happy, Fulfilled and Satisfied Life.